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The Best Part About Changing Jobs

June 11, 2009 · 1 Comment

Today was the first day in about two weeks that I had to buy my own lunch.  Ever since I gave my notice, it’s been a whirlwind of happy hours, lunches, breakfasts, coffee breaks, etc.  First with the old job, and then this week with my new colleagues.

There was the Adele-planned happy hour at the Union Grill.  Complete with champagne (and a margarita for me!), great apps, and really nice and thoughtful gifts.  Then there was a delicious lunch at Eleven, where I had the best burger I’ve had in awhile.  Both of these excursions were PC…they included some people I am less than fond of, so it started another wave of events for just people we like :)

On one of my last days, two of my most important and favorite internal customers took me to Lucca.  I hadn’t been there in awhile and never for lunch, so I wasn’t really sure what to expect.  I had the turkey club sandwich, and oh my God, was it good.  It was enormous and came with lots of chips and a really large side salad.  (Just a note, if you’re a club sandwich fan, check this cool new blog out:  http://clubsaretrump.blogspot.com/ – it’s really neat!)  I also had the tiramisu for desert, and well, that was just a disgrace to tiramisu everywhere.  Over all the lunch was excellent both in taste and company.

My very last day, two of my fav co-workers and I went to a restaurant off the beaten path so we could enjoy a few cocktails.  A couple of glasses of prosecco later, and I was feeling GREAT as I handed off my badge and everything to HR.

Then I started the new job.  Day one was a retreat, so even though it wasn’t all for me, I can pretend it was.  Breakfast, lunch, and ice cream sundaes!  Day two and three…more lunches with new, interesting and great people.  One place we went that I really liked was the cafe at Phipps.  I had a great chicken salad…it was a good size too.  Not overwhelmingly large, but I left full.

Today…a quick bagel at Einsteins.  Not that exciting, but filling.  It’s fun changing jobs :)

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Dark at the Roots

April 13, 2009 · 2 Comments

This month, my book club is reading Dark at the Roots by Sarah Thyre.  I only got to page 88.  It’s a memior about a girl growing up in the South.  Sarah writes well, but I just had an issue because I didn’t know where she was going with anything…the points of all of her stories were really unclear, so I didn’t finish it.

Book club should be fun though tonight.  We’ve gotten more people interested in it…last month there were I think 10 of us there.  It’s nice to get together with friends like this…even if I won’t really be participating in book talk :)

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Surprise, Surprise

April 13, 2009 · Leave a Comment

One of my best friends, Nur, turned 30 on Saturday.  She lives in New Jersey right outside of NYC, so I flew up for 24 hours to surprise her.  Turns out, her wonderful fiance also wanted to surprise her…he had a bunch of her good friends waiting at a bar to send her into her 30s with a bang :)

The best part was that Nur was so unsuspecting that she was literally in tears Saturday morning because no one was doing anything for her big day.  She was so happy and surprised, and I’m so glad I got to be a part of it!

Before the surprise at Quay’s in Hoboken, Kelly (who graciously let me stay with her in her awesome apartment in midtown Manhattan!) and I had dinner at 3Forty Grill.  Awesome filet…and they barely cooked it just the way I liked.  The mashed potatoes were to die for, as well…slightly garlic-y, but still so yummy.  The best part?  The martini’s.  I had a raspberry and 3Forty…which tasted like rainbow sherbert!

Little did I know when I was planning my trip that Sunday was Easter.  Opps.  I had a nice Southwest Chicken Salad from McDonald’s on my way home from the airport.  Definitely worth it…it was a great weekend!

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Bridesmaidzilla Strikes Again

December 2, 2008 · 2 Comments

Remember Rosie, Gabby’s new sister-in-law and bridesmaid from hell?  She was a pain in the butt before and during the wedding.  My blood starts to boil every time I think about her in the bridal suite sitting in the corner making phone calls to plan her own wedding and not saying a word to anyone else…all while wearing her future mrs whatever hoodie. 

Well, the wedding is off.  Turns out Rosie McSlut found herself a new guy and started sleeping with him while she was still engaged and spending 40 hours a week wedding planning.  (Rosie actually told her mom that’s how much planning she was doing….either she’s a complete moron or entirely too inefficeint with her time.)  So, the wedding is off.  But, she instructed her mom to tell people that it’s just on hold.  Right.  She spent Thanksgiving with the new guy.  I think she just wants to keep the ring and pawn it for cash.

The timing of her engagement (about three weeks before Gabby’s wedding) and her antics during the wedding weekend always made me wonder if she wanted to be engaged at her brother’s wedding for some reason.  Well, now I know she did. 

Good luck to the new guy…I wonder if he has any idea just what type of person he’s getting involved with.

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Gabby Turns the Big 3-0

October 21, 2008 · 2 Comments

My best friend since the sixth grade is 30 today! I’m not exactly sure when it happened, but it seems like we’re all grown up or something now. Maybe it should have hit me when my close friends started getting married (and some having BABIES!), but this kind of cements it for me…my twenties are quickly coming to an end.

I’m not exactly sure how Gabs feels about turning 30…I’m not exactly freaking out about it…yet. It is nine+ months away, but it is looming. The hardest birthday I’ve had so far was 22. For some reason, I felt so old and had nothing look really look forward to any more – especially after the long wait to turn 21. My friend actually gave me a subscription to Redbook for my 22nd…it caused me to burst into tears.

But, I think if you surround yourself with family and good friends and focus on what makes you happy, you’re off to a great start towards happiness…and all of the other stuff will seem incidental.

Happy 30th Birthday, Gabby!!!

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Restaurant Review – 17th Street Cafe

October 17, 2008 · 1 Comment

I haven’t blogged in awhile…and now two in one day?! Can you tell I just really don’t want to work???

Anyway, we went to 17th Street Cafe last night with my mom, who is visiting from Florida. I love that restaurant. The food is great, it’s really cute and cozy inside, the wine is good, and the prices are reasonable. Since we moved to the South Side, we’ve eaten there several times, have gotten take out and had them cater last year’s holiday party. They never disappoint.

We started with the hot banana peppers appetizer…very good, and not really that spicy.  They could actually be a little spicier.  Then, we had bread and salads. I don’t know if they bake their own bread or where they get it from, but it’s simple Italian bread that is so soft and yummy.

For dinner, I ordered the filet, extra extra rare. Normally, I don’t like when filet comes with a bunch of sauce and other things, but the sauce and the mushrooms were excellent. I did scrape the blue cheese off the top though because the meat was too tasty and didn’t need it. And, it was cooked, or under-cooked as my mom said, to perfection.

My mom really enjoyed her pasta dish, and Brad loved his spicy diavolo pasta. They also have Chateau St Michelle Reisling by the glass…which is my preferred Reisling. It was a really great dinner, and nice to spend some time with my mommy.

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Mean People Suck

October 17, 2008 · 1 Comment

If you want something from someone, it’s so much easier to get it when you ask nicely.

Yesterday, a person I work with – who we’ll call Joey B. – went out of his way to be mean and power trippy over the smallest thing.

Joey B. needed web stats to give to his boss, our CEO. Instead of Joey B. looking them up himself like every other competent person we work with, he always asks me to do it for him. Fine, it takes all of 4 minutes and that’s fine.

Well, yesterday Joey B. decided that he wanted to receive the information in a new combined format with a fancy Excel chart. I have about a million other things to do that are actually important and my work – not someone else’s – and I’m not an Excel chart whiz, so I put all of the data in the spreadsheet (per usual) and NICELY explained that I didn’t know how to make that chart, but here’s all the data, if you make it, I can update it next month and so on.

Joey B. proceeded to email and call me yelling at me like I was a worthless human being. He then went on to nastily yell that I need to also put the information in a powerpoint slide for him so he can add it to his presentation. Um, ok…I don’t work for you, so no I don’t think I should be doing your job for you.

I told him I’d figure out how to make the cart (not part of my job – you want information about stats, that’s one thing – what you do with them is not my concern) and hung up b/c he was being so rude. I actually pretty easily figured out how to make the stupid chart, plopped it onto one of his slides and sent it off. I purposefully left off the title he asked me to include…just b/c he was so mean, and I wanted to see if he’d yell at me for that. He did. I got another angry email stating that I didn’t include the title and to please add it.

I don’t know where people get off. This guy has no right to a) tell me what to do or b) yell at me. For anything. I’m not his – or anyone else’s – assistant/bitch. It’s not my job to do his job.

Yet, the thing is, had he asked me nicely to put the information into a slide to help him out and acted like a decent person when I said I didn’t know how to make the complex chart, I’d happily have done it all for him.

Being nice will get you so much further in life. Being mean about stupid things is just well, stupid.

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Why isn’t anything ever easy?

August 21, 2008 · 2 Comments

Buying furniture – or anything that a store has and you’re willing to pay for – should be very straight-forward and simple. They have item X, you want item X. The price is fair to you and something you can afford. You purchase/order item X. You should get item X, right?

I understand that sometimes mistakes happen. Incorrect size or color. Damaged goods. Whatever…mistakes do happen, but since you, the customer are paying for these goods, the store should make it as easy as possible for you to really get what you paid for – at no extra inconvience to you.

And then there’s reality. Or maybe it’s just my reality…maybe I just have the worst luck.

At the beginning of February, I decided that I wanted to use my tax return money (plus some) to get a new dining room table and four chairs at Z Gallerie. I went to the store all excited, paid for the new set and then found out they were on backorder and wouldn’t be delivered until May. Talk about a buzz kill.

I patiently waited until they were delivered. On May 16th, I left work for two hours to wait for it. It’s funny that even with today’s cell phone technology, they still only give you a window in which you’re supposed to drop everything and just sit at your house waiting. The table and chairs came, and the delivery people set them up and left – all under what seemed like five minutes. As soon I locked the door behind them, I went over to admire our gorgeous new table. That’s when I saw a huge, deep scratch on the side of the table. I hadn’t noticed it when they set it up b/c of how the table was situated. They never asked me to look over the table to make sure it was ok – they practically ran out of my house.

I immediately called the Pittsburgh Z Gallerie to tell them about this scratch on my brand new table. The manager who I spoke with seemed very nice, understanding and willing to help me. He said he would call customer service and then get back to me – by the next day at the latest. Well, that came and went and a few days later I called Z Gallerie again and asked for Chad. He wasn’t working so I explained my situation to the person who answered the phone – only to be told that I’d need to talk to Chad since he’s a manager. I asked if she could please leave a message for him to call me. I never received a phone call back, and the previous situation repeated itself about four times.

Finally, a full month after the damaged table had been delivered, I got a helpful and empathetic sales associate on the phone. He said that he wasn’t a manager but that he’d work on it until he got an answer for me. I received a call from Z Gallerie cusomter service the next day to schedule a replacement table top delivery for the next week.

Once again, I had to “disappear” from work for two hours to accept the new table top. When they got to my house, I showed the delivery guy the scratch and he went back out to his truck to get the replacement. A few minutes later, he came back in empty handed and told me that the replacement table had a huge scratch in a totally different location. I asked him what I should do, and he recommended refusing the delivery and calling the store ASAP to get things figured out.

I did that and got a complete bit*h who claimed to be a manager at the Pittsburgh Z Gallerie. She was rude and her tone was almost accusatory towards me. Like I was behind these scratches in the tables or something! After assuring her that yes the scratches were different and that they were deep enought that they couldn’t just be sanded down, She said she’d have customer service call me again to set up a new delivery.

Then I went on vacation and missed their calls. When I returned and got a hold of customer service, I was told that the table had been discontinued and there wouldn’t be any replacement sent to me. I had two options – I could either return the table or get a $100 gift card.

I had chosen this particular table b/c it fit in my dining room and matched the chairs that I wanted and absolutely had to have. I couldn’t return it, so I took the $100 gift card to somehow compensate me for a damaged item that cost $700.

In the meantime, the new dining room table – which I do love and have situated so you can’t really see the scratch – didn’t go with our current living room furniture…so we went couch shopping. We found a gorgeous dark brown leather sectional at Macy’s. And, it would fit in our living room. (Because of the room’s set up, a sectional has to be configured with the sectional piece coming out of the right hand side, if you’re sitting on it. Or else our sliding glass door would be blocked, the basement door won’t open the entire way and the couch would face the dining room and not the TV.)

We ordered it and were once again told it was on backorder. Funny because three weeks before when we initially saw it, it had been in stock. But they said it should only take a month, so at least it wasn’t too bad.

I was so excited and had been preparing for our house’s new, great look for weeks. I bought accessories, built a shelf, figured out what I wanted to do on the walls and so far it looked awesome. We just needed the couch!

It came yesterday.

And it was configured wrong.

The delivery guys tried to call Macy’s to get them to help me – they could immediately tell the configuration was wrong and I’d be a complete idiot to order it that way. But the person they called told me to call my sales person. They said they’d wait until I talked to him, so I went upstairs to get his number. He wasn’t in, so I talked to some woman in the store who couldn’t have cared less about my situation. I went down to tell the delivery guys and they said they’d note that it was wrong and wished me luck. And, they apologized because apparently something had changed with their customer service to make it harder to them to get someone to help people on the spot.

I spent the next hour (that I had again just disappeared from work) calling Macy’s customer service numbers that I found online. I was transferred three times. ANd basically told different things with each person I spoke with. There was the 10% restocking fee I’m going to have to pay (WHAT!?!?!?!?!?!?!), that the configuration I need won’t be available for 90-100 days (Again, WHAT?!?!??!?!?!?!?!?!?) and basically I can’t do anything to remidy the situation until my salesperson gets in. Thank goodness it’s today, but if I don’t hear what I want, it’s going to get ugly.

I better have the right couch in my house in one week or less. I will not pay any restocking fees. If the right couch is not in my house in less than one week, they will come and pick up the couch that’s there and I will go to one of the MANY other fine furniture establishments in this world and give them my business.

I’m the paying customer. I should be right, right???

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I found a cleaning lady!

August 18, 2008 · 1 Comment

I’ve been without a cleaning lady for several months.  Until today! 

My boyfriend’s mother recommended this Portuguese woman and her sister, and today we had our initial house clean.  It took them seven hours to clean EVERYTHING…baseboards, walls, behind the fridge, cabinets, closets - and then the normal dusting/vacuuming/scrubbing.  The house is so clean.  Impeccably clean.  I am so happy. 

They’re going to start coming every two weeks!!!  I really feel that this is the best cleaning quality imaginable.  And, there are all of these really nice touches – the toilet paper is wrapped into a flower at the end…same think with kleenex and the towel display in the bathroom look like they belong in a hotel!

If you live in Pittsburgh, and need a good cleaning team, please let me know.

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Ways to procrastinate at work

July 31, 2008 · 4 Comments

Lately, I’ve been a really great procrastinator. Here are the top 10 ways I’ve been spending too much time at work. How do you procrastinate? Add your’s in the comments section!

(Note: My productivity will get better. I’m determined.)

In no particular order:

1. Make a Starbucks run. (Or two, or three)

2. Check perezhilton.com repeatedly. Despite the fact I find the majority of his comments to be rude and arrogant, he does update frequently.

3. Visit people.com. Not as many stories as perezhilton, but fun photo galleries.

4. Find out what’s going on with the world other than celebrity news at cnn.com.

5. Play around on facebook.

6. Blog.

7. Chat with work friends.

8. Pay bills. Somehow it feels better to spend “work” time doing this…

9. Shop online.

10. Job hunt – because it’s always good to keep your options open.

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